Guided by the Radical Truth of Love, Sex, and Autism

The Consultation: A Sanctuary of Relational Clarity

A consultation with Candice is a focused, goal-oriented immersion into the neuro-culture of intimacy. Moving beyond the traditional bounds of guidance, these sessions are a deep dive into the architecture of your unique neurobiology. Utilizing the framework from her #1 bestseller, Love, Sex, and Autism, Candice offers a roadmap for individuals and couples to reclaim their autonomy and navigate the landscape of connection with profound clarity.

What the Journey Entails

These sessions are time-limited and highly intentional—a dedicated container for neuro-affirmative illumination. We move past the vague and the general into a specialized study of your nervous system and the "neurolanguage" of your relationship.

  • The Sexual Sensory Profile: A descent into the wisdom of the body. Together, we identify how your neurobiology speaks through touch, sound, and presence. We move from the fog of overwhelm into a concrete map of your sensory "Yes," "No," and "Maybe"—honoring your somatic truth as the foundation of desire.

  • The Bridge of Translation: In neurodifferent unions, communication often falters not from a lack of love, but from a lack of translation. We focus on bridging the "Double Empathy" gap—learning to perceive how two different neurotypes can experience the same moment in radically different, yet equally valid, ways.

  • The 7 Adaptive Communication Styles: Most conflict is simply the nervous system speaking. Candice identifies the seven specific ways the neurodifferent brain communicates when it feels unsafe or over-stimulated. By identifying your unique "neurolanguage," you can dissolve the cycle of shame and begin the sacred process of co-regulation.

  • Naming the Invisible (The Architecture of Bandwidth): We explore the "logistical leaks" that drain emotional energy before you ever reach the bedroom. From honoring transition times to closing the "Executive Function Gap," we create systems that respect your energy cycles rather than traditional models that lead to burnout.

  • Self-Led Connection: Utilizing the wisdom of IFS and Intimacy From the Inside Out, we cultivate tools for connecting from a place of "Self" rather than from "Parts" that mask, protect, people-please, and more. This is the art of being seen without the armor.

  • Restoration from Betrayal: For those walking the heavy path of intimate betrayal, Candice provides a steady, neuro-affirmative container to support your healing. We address the paralyzing nature of trauma, the intensity of justice sensitivity, and the deep echoes of Rejection Sensitivity (RSD), creating a path toward restorative truth.

 
 

“This is more than a book about sex and relationships ... It’s a resource that will undoubtably save relationships, open doors to healing, and most importantly, give voice to the experiences that have remained in the shadows for far too long.”

– Jenna Riemersma, Harvard Trained LPC, Best Selling Author of Altogether You and IFS Integration